How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 23.06.2025 06:25
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Procrastinates a lot.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
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Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
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Making more friends is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
That's it for today.
I have BPD. Why do I destroy everyone I love?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Ask yourself:
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Does not procrastinate.